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Knjige za ljudi z lastno izkušnjo raka

Branje je lahko pomemben način raziskovanja izkušenj raka, žalovanja, izgube in spremembe. Ko gremo skozi nekaj težkega, ni vedno lahko najti besed, s katerimi bi opisali, kaj čutimo. Knjige nam lahko včasih pomagajo osmisliti čustva, ki se zdijo zmedena, preplavljajoča ali jih je težko razložiti. Branje o likih ali ljudeh, ki so doživeli bolezen, negotovost, izgubo ali veliko spremembo, lahko ustvari tudi občutek prepoznavanja in povezanosti ter nas spomni, da nismo edini, ki doživljamo ta čustva.

Na ta način lahko knjige ponudijo različne poglede na izkušnjo raka ter na številne oblike žalovanja in izgube, ki jo lahko spremljajo. Nekatere zgodbe se neposredno osredotočajo na bolezen ali zdravljenje, druge pa raziskujejo teme, kot so spremembe telesa, identiteta, odnosi, negotovost, upanje, ljubezen, odpornost in iskanje smisla, ko se življenje ne odvija po pričakovanjih. Morda se boste prepoznali v nekem liku, določeni izkušnji ali celo samo v enem stavku, ki ubesedi nekaj, kar ste čutili. Včasih nam lahko to, da vidimo izkušnjo odraženo v zgodbi, pomaga, da svojo lažje poimenujemo, razumemo ali ji naredimo prostor.

Hkrati pa branje ni vedno nujno način soočanja s težkimi izkušnjami. Lahko pridejo trenutki, ko preprosto ne želite razmišljati o raku ali žalovanju, in takrat je branje lahko dobrodošel premor. Vstop v drug svet skozi zgodbo lahko ponudi začasen odmik od težkih misli in čustev ter ustvari prostor za počitek, domišljijo ali preprosto trenutek običajnosti (v tem primeru si oglejte Knjižnica knjig). Sami lahko izberete, kaj boste brali, kdaj boste brali in koliko se želite v to poglobiti. Če se vam določena knjiga zdi pretežka, v vas prebudi čustva, s katerimi se še niste pripravljeni soočiti, ali pa preprosto ni prava za vas v tem trenutku, je popolnoma v redu, da prenehate brati in se k njej vrnete pozneje — ali pa izberete nekaj drugega.

S tem v mislih so knjige v tem razdelku izbrane tako, da ponujajo različne poglede in izkušnje, povezane z rakom, žalovanjem, izgubo in spremembo. Nekatere vam lahko pomagajo, da se počutite razumljene, ali ubesedijo izkušnjo, ki jo je bilo težko izraziti; druge lahko ponudijo občutek spremljanja, tolažbo ali preprosto trenutek odmika od vsega. Ni določenega vrstnega reda, v katerem bi jih morali brati, in ni pričakovanja, da bo vsaka knjiga prava za vas. Raziskujte jih v svojem tempu in izberite zgodbe, ki se vam zdijo najbolj smiselne, tolažilne ali pomembne za vas.

At the Will of the Body

Arthur W. Frank · 1991

Angleščina

It shows how serious illness alters one’s identity, body and social roles. It helps cancer survivors to recognise and acknowledge invisible losses and to reconstruct a narrative following their illness.

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Everything Changes

Kairol Rosenthal · 2009

Angleščina

An insightful guide that brings together the raw and honest stories of young adults facing cancer, exploring their struggles with identity, relationships, and the healthcare system while offering practical advice and a deeply human perspective on living with illness.

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In My Time of Dying

Sebastian Junger · 2024

Angleščina

It explores mortality in an accessible and non-threatening way, encouraging reflection on finitude, fear and human connection. It helps those who have experienced cancer to come to terms with the reality of death and to transform that experience into existential clarity.

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In-Between Days

Teva Harrison · 2016

Angleščina

This memoir tells the story of a young woman living with metastatic breast cancer, using drawings and short reflections to explore fear, love, and uncertainty while finding moments of hope and meaning in everyday life.

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Ko dih postane zrak Paul Kalanithi

Paul Kalanithi

Angleščina

A powerful memoir written by a doctor facing terminal cancer. It helps readers reflect on identity, purpose, and meaning when life plans change due to illness.

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Med dvema kraljestvoma: Spomini na prekinjeno življenje

Suleika Jaouad

Angleščina

This memoir explores the experience of illness and survivorship, focusing on identity, loss of normal life, and the transition back into everyday reality. It helps readers process feelings of disconnection, grief for their “old life,” and the challenges of rebuilding meaning after cancer.

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Proof of Heaven

Eben Alexander · 2012

Angleščina

It explores near-death experiences and spirituality. Can be useful for people facing life-threatening situations who are seeking meaning, hope and reconciliation with the fact of mortality.

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The Bright Hour

Nina Riggs · 2017

Angleščina

A moving memoir about living with terminal cancer. It gently explores grief, identity, relationships, and the experience of living with uncertainty.

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The Cancer Journals

Audre Lorde · 1980

Angleščina

This memoir recounts the author’s experience with breast cancer, exploring pain, identity, and survival while challenging social expectations about illness, femininity, and the meaning of living with and beyond disease.

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Ways to Live Forever

Sally Nicholls · 2008

Angleščina

A child narrates his illness journey. Helps with meaning-making and emotional expression.

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When You're Sick or in the Hospital

Tom McGrath · 2002

Angleščina

It offers simple, empathetic language to help people understand vulnerability, fear and the loss of independence. It helps people who have experienced cancer to come to terms with difficult emotions and to feel supported throughout their experience of illness and hospitalisation.

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Zac and Mia

A. J. Betts · 2013

Angleščina

Shows peer connection between two teens with cancer. Supports identification and reduces isolation.

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Človekovo iskanje smisla

Viktor E. Frankl

Angleščina

While not specifcally about cancer, this is a great book for anyone facing survivors guilt. Frankl explores how we find meaning when we are the ones who made it through. It is very helpful for those struggling with the "why me"of survival

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Amar a Vida como Ela É

Sofia Caessa · 2022

Portugalščina

The story of a cancer survivor and how she has managed to deal with the challenges of life.

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Salva-Vidas

Rosário Carmona e Costa · 2022

Portugalščina

A sensitive account of loss, care and resilience. It helps cancer survivors recognise the emotional impact of the disease on relationships and on the grieving process (both anticipatory and post-loss).

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Ta vsebina je nastala v okviru projekta YARN, ki ga je v obdobju 2025-2028 sofinanciral program EU4Health (sporazum o nepovratnih sredstvih št. 101219053).